By Liz Graham
Last week, I was scrolling through social media when I stumbled across coverage of Sean “Diddy” Combs’ trial.
Reading survivor Cassie Ventura’s testimony, I was abruptly transported back to a painful chapter in my own life. The trauma and shame resurfaced as vividly as if it had happened yesterday.
Despite over 25 years of healing and growth, the weight of standing up for myself and seeking protection came rushing back.
This experience underscores a broader issue: the way media covers high-profile sexual assault cases can have profound effects on survivors.
Sensationalized headlines and graphic details not only retraumatize individuals but also perpetuate harmful myths about sexual violence.
There are countless examples I could point to, but doing so would only amplify the coverage we need to move away from. Survivors deserve better than to see their pain reduced to headlines designed to shock.
When the media prioritizes shock value over survivor dignity, it doesn’t just shape public opinion — it actively causes harm. Research shows that when survivors share their stories online and are met with blame, disbelief, or dismissal, their trauma deepens. One study of #MeToo disclosures found that unsupportive responses were linked to higher PTSD symptoms.
Media coverage that emphasizes sensationalism over sensitivity can also contribute to secondary victimization, where survivors feel blamed or disbelieved. This both deters individuals from coming forward and reinforces a culture of silence around sexual violence.
Media outlets must recognize their role in shaping public perception and the potential harm caused by insensitive reporting. By prioritizing survivor-centered narratives and avoiding gratuitous details, journalists can contribute to a more informed and compassionate discourse.
As someone who leads a domestic violence and sexual assault response agency, I see everyday how important it is for survivors to have access to compassionate, trauma-informed support.
No matter when someone’s experience occurred, every survivor deserves to be believed and to heal in a community that supports them.
Let’s advocate for media practices that honor the dignity of survivors and foster a culture of empathy and understanding. Together, we can challenge harmful narratives and work towards a society where survivors are supported, not sensationalized.
Healing is a journey, and no one should have to walk it alone.
Liz Graham is the Chief Executive Officer of 180 Turning Lives Around, a Monmouth County-based organization serving survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault. If you or someone you know has been affected by domestic violence or sexual assault, please contact 180 Turning Lives Around at (732) 264-4111 or visit www.180nj.org.